by Julia O'Farrell LMT & CIMI
Touch is a language we can use to communicate to our infants quite effectively. It is also a language that we can continue to have with our infants as they grow into adulthood. The practice of infant massage has been around for centuries & was introduced to the United States in the 1970's by Vimala Schneider McClure. She studied the benefits of massage on infants while in India and then brought her findings to the US to share.
Since then numerous studies have found that when infants are able to be massaged for at least 15 minutes a day, they were more awake and active during the day, cried less, slept better and were more bonded with their parents.
I found, when massaging my own children, that they would calm down to the sound of my hands rubbing together in preparation for the massage as they knew the sound meant something good and calming. There are numerous benefits to both the child and parent when massage is performed on a regular basis.
It's best to have the room at a warm temperature so that your infant will be comfortable during the massage, keep the lighting soft or dim and have something washable and leak proof under the baby. I like to use oils when I am massaging, the ones that I have found to be the best during an infant massage are almond, apricot, grape seed, sesame or olive oil. The skin absorbs these oils quite well and if the oil reaches the infant's mouth via their little hand, your baby will be okay.
To begin I apply the oil to my hands and then I rub them together making a kind of swooshing sound. After about the third time all of my babies began to recognize that sound. You could tell by the expression on their faces they were happy, calm, content and anxiously awaiting the massage.
And the best part? Infant massage is fun!
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Julia O'Farrell is a licensed massage therapist and she is the mom of three magical little men and wife to Jeremy.
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