by Jovanna Acevedo Quesada
You've arrived at home with your wee bundle, probably still feeling a bit "out of it," and feel like you should have had a pad of sticky notes handy to tape to your forehead, such as "food goes in the mouth" and "change the diaper as needed."
Judging from the bunches of new parents' questions we hear in our Pregnancy.org communities, those instructions aren't always enough.
It's a bit of a myth that parenting just comes naturally, or relies purely on common sense. As a community of parents, we learn to know better.
You've put the car in park now, and are just about ready to open the door to your home. You remind yourself to keep breathing. You've just entered into a whole new zone - the parenting zone.
We believe that every parent deserves to know what to expect. We're hoping this list helps to paints a more realistic picture of life with your new tiny tot.
A newborn sleeps 16 to 20 hours a day. Actually a newborn naps multiple times a day. However, it never seems to be in long enough stretches for you do actually sleep through a complete cycle. Try these tips to battle new baby fatigue:
New motherhood (and fatherhood) stretches you (and we mean more than the chest on your t-shirt). New demands, less sleep, more responsibilities all contribute to events that might have you shaking your head. Have you talked to a grocery bag on your hip? Asked where the baby was only to find that precious bundle in your arms? Heard your breast pump talking to you?
You're not alone. Really! Other moms experience 'crazy' happenings and wonder if along with they brought a mental disorder home with the new babe. If only you knew! Do you have a story to share? Add it to comments! We'd love to hear your new-momma induced lapse from the normal.
Be prepared. That is all! That new swaddling blanket could come in handy.
We're not referring to after labor day. White isn't going to necessarily work in your new mommy wardrobe. You could try to coordinate clothing with your child's menu. Cereal today? How about desert camouflage? Carrots or squash? We suggest a bright floral print. Even milk stains are not white so white must be removed from your closet (or shoved back well out of reach).
"Emergencies" happen. That's just life. You'll leave the house for a "quick errand" without the diaper bag and bingo, you're not a happy camper and neither is baby who really needs a diaper change!
Something that's clever to do is toss together an "OMG! I can't believe this happened" kit or bag to keep in the car. It can be a change of clothes for baby, diapers, wipes, a clean shirt for you, and something to help entertain during unexpected delays. You'll be happy you did!