Behavior & Development

  • Discipline or Punishment

    Discipline is different from punishment because it teaches children to learn from their mistakes rather than making them suffer for them. The four R's of consequences actually apply to all discipline techniques, not just natural and logical consequences. Whatever discipline technique you choose, make sure it meets the following four criteria...

  • Helping "Moody" Kids

    It's extremely rare for a preschooler to be clinically depressed, unless something seriously traumatic has happened. It sounds more like your son is just vulnerable to getting bumped into a bad mood, and that it's harder than one would like for him to climb back out of his slump. And he sounds very normal; lots of other kids have similar tendencies. So what to do?

  • Signing with Your Baby

    Infants are able to make sense of our complex world long before they can talk. Do you wish your baby could tell you such things as "I'm hungry," "I'm thirsty," "I have an earache" before they can speak? Read "Getting Started Signing with Your Baby" to learn more.

  • Missing Daddy: A Toddler's Perspective

    QUESTION

    My daughter is 16 months old. My husband's been off work a few months and soon will be starting again. At times he may be away from home for two weeks at a time.

    She is VERY attached to him. If she notices he is gone she has a melt down. Today he left for work before she woke up and it was just a rotten day. She pounded on the bedroom door, screamed...

    Do you have any suggestions that might make her transition easier on everyone?

  • The Big Kid Dream Room!

    If you're reading this, chances are Junior has been begging you to get rid of the Winnie the Pooh characters gracing every square inch of his room. Redecorating can be a daunting -- and expensive -- task but it doesn't have to be! You can enlist your child's help and ideas for creating a personalized space all their own and not break the bank in the process.

  • Baby Builders' Developmental Milestones

    The first year of life is an exciting and challenging time in your baby's life. He will go through many changes physically, emotionally and mentally. The skills he will learn in the first year of life will set the stage for his future. Read "Baby Builders' Developmental Milestones" to learn more.

  • Parenting Tool: Don't Say "Don't"

    In all my years of teaching parenting classes, one skill has stood out. I call it "Don't say Don't". Have you ever told your child "Don't go in the street!" and they walk out in the street? or "Don't fall!" and two seconds later they skin their knees? Why is it that children seem to do what we tell them not to do?

  • Toxic Tableware and Tainted Formula: Melamine’s Back in the Hot Seat

    Last fall thousands of babies in China were hospitalized after drinking formula contaminated with melamine. Another health concern is melamine tableware. Does your toddler have a cute plastic plate, bowl and spoon? Melamine, formaldehyde and other chemicals can leach into food served on this tableware. Read on for recommendations for your child's dishware.

  • Healthy Child Healthy World

    Christopher Gavigan has compiled one of the most valuable guides available today for parents and parents-to-be in his latest work, Healthy Child Healthy World. This book offers critical information needed by all families – from those still trying to conceive, currently pregnant, with infants, toddlers, and beyond.

    Rating: 
    6 - Highly recommend
  • Building Baby's Brain: What Parents Can Do

    Until recently we believed that there wasn't much we could do to help the brain develop. Most people believed that a child's genes determined a basic level of intelligence, and little could be done to change it after birth. Now we know that the brain does a lot of developing after birth.

  • Laughing Through the Chaos: Behold the Power of Unsolicited Advice...

    Read All of Laughing Through Chaos

    A seemingly sweet-looking little old lady (let's just call her Granny Panties) at church just about got a knuckle sandwich this morning, but lucky for her, I was holding my screaming child, who was apparently trying to communicate to the entire church that I hadn't fed her in, oh, a good week or so by the decibel level of her screams.

  • Creative Tips from Baby Minds - Birth to 24 Months

    Your baby's brain is primed to intake a great deal of information. Author Linda Acredo of Baby Minds presents several creative suggestions for stimulating your baby's development at age appropriate levels.

  • Signing with Your Baby

    Infants are able to make sense of our complex world long before they can talk. Do you wish your baby could tell you such things as "I'm hungry," "I'm thirsty," "I have an earache" before they can speak? Read "Getting Started Signing with Your Baby" to learn more.

  • The First Month: Congratulations on Your Baby!

    The first month of your baby's life is full of many changes. But the baby isn't the only one to experience change. Here is a word to you parents, whose lives will take on new meanings very quickly.

  • Choosing Toys for Babies

    You may not be sure what kind of toys, or how many, you baby should have. It's likely that you hear conflicting advice that runs from one extreme to another! It's either: "Don't give your baby toys -- he'll be spoiled," to "Give your baby lots of toys -- they develop his brain." So...which is it?

  • Keeping Your Baby's Head the Perfect Shape

    Babies don't get plagiocephaly from being put on their backs to sleep but from spending extended periods lying on their backs, particularly if they always tend to lie looking to one side. This can occur because:

  • High Risk Kids

    QUESTION

    Hi Dr. Laura,
    My husband and I are seriously considering assuming permanent guardianship for 3 young children, and particularly the youngest. Their mother is a foster-sister. Here are details:

    Children are 16 months, 2½ and 4.
    Their mom is a little slow mentally.
    She breastfed each to age one or so.
    The children have been shifted around once they hit toddler age.
    There is obvious developmental delay.
    They don't mind going with unfamiliar people, but do panic if you put on your coat. It is as if they're afraid you will leave without them.

  • Kids' Activity: Make a Multi-cultural Book

    Some people have brown eyes and curly hair. Some are tall and thin. Some live in houses made of stone while others live in ice houses. Even though people may look different, dress differently and live differently, they have the same needs. A multicultural book gives an opportunity to talk about these common factors.

  • Speech Habits

    QUESTION

    Dear Dr. Laura,

    My 3 and a half year old son has begun demonstrating some strange speech behavior. It started with "blowing". I should start by saying that he has lately become obsessive about not stepping on cracks (in sidewalks, on tile floors) and has consistently avoided doing this for about 3 months now.

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