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My husband and I have been together for almost five years now, and married for almost 4. We found out we were pregnant with our first child Hanna five months after we had been together, needless to say we moved way to fast for a couple who were barely in our twenties. Back then we were just stupid kids thinking the world was at our fingertips and that nothing could slow us down, we learned otherwise the day the pregnancy test said pregnant. Now my daughter is three and the light of our lives, she makes everyday worth all the struggle we went through and all the worries and fears we had. I am a stay at home mom, and my husband has a steady job that pays more than enough for the three of us. That got us thinking, well why not have another baby? We talked it over, and decided we really wanted to, and I instantly went on my excited obsessive way for preparation. It has been a month since we talked this over, wed I go to have the mirena birth control removed, and I can't help but feel the anxiety now. All these questions keep going through my head over and over like some messed up record. How is this new baby going to affect us? What if it takes a really long time to get pregnant after my birth control is removed? How is my daughter going to react going from only child to older sister? What changes are we going to have to make in order for the transition to go more smoothly? Over and over again they replay, then sometimes new ones add themselves into the mix. Are we to young to even be thinking about another baby? What is this going to do to what is left of our social lives? How is the rest of our family going to react to the news? The list is never ending. Now our big thing is names. Did we mention we were a little excited? Not even pregnant yet, but we are already fighting over names. Smile But I need a little help with the boys names... If it is a girl it will either be Evelyn Jane or Piper Jane. I love both names and my husband has admitted defeat knowing he will never win that battle with me. But the boys names is where he will fight lol, it has to be a manly name, a strong name, a name people will remember, can you tell I'm quoting him? So far I have wrote down Quinn, Talon, Ryker, Maddox, Aiden, Braydon, Asher, Gideon, Lukas, Blaine, and Cash. But none of them are what he wanted. He says Dylan, I say no way. There has to be some kind of law stating that if you knew someone by a name the other partner wants to name a child, and you didn't get along (at all ) with them, that the child can NOT be named that. Right? Here's to hoping!! So this is my deal I like all these names, but I can't find a middle name that sounds good! Any ideas?