Sandy... You need a bear hug badly. You did all of your work and requierements in a timely manner and they drag their feet!!! I think Jenny should have been up Minal's arse calling her and demanding information and not just politely waiting for them to call!!!
SOMETHING is holding the process up and you deserve to know!!!!
I hope tommorrow is better for you!
gah! How frustrating Sandy!! I think they really need to get their shiza together and start making things happen, you were SO diligent in getting your stuff to them it's the least they can do in return. Seriously, hun I'm sorry (((hugs))))
I am so sorry Sandy. I find it rude & completley unacceptable how she is treating you guys, your right your paying them for their services and they are failing miserably - I also agree that it's not like it's that hard to write a quick e-mail! But to say that she'll write you and then be gone until Tuesday?? ugh.
I hope the phone conversation goes better than expected, I really really do.
How dissapointing... Hang in there.... How can she put you on this emotional roller-coaster! They better not have lied!!! Maybe your DH should request a sit-down meeting with them , to clear things up? Are they far away?
I can't believe how poorly you are getting treated!
This is no better then TTC roller-coaster.
I am sorry Sandy.
Asha, I would like nothing better than a sit-down meeting, but they are in Maine and we're in Idaho. The phone call is about as personal as it can get. I really hope we get some answers on Tuesday! I just want things to get sorted out with this adoption, rather than having to start the process over with another program.
LOL Nadine - your a hoot. I thought that was cool too when I read it - how fun to have someone so close! I'm only 3hrs from Idaho, or at least that's about how long it too me to drive up to Nadines - I'm in SLC.
Lots of hugs for you Sandy - been thinkin' of ya a lot latley.
OMG that's so cool, we're so close together!! Nadine, I'm about 45 minutes away from Boise. Where are you at? Hey, maybe once we all have/bring our babies home, we can get together!! Wouldn't that be fun???????? Asha and Elicia, you guys have to come too!!!!
I would love to come and visit with you and Nadine!
However, you guys live waaaaayyy out there in the West. Any chance you are moving this way?
I am being cautiously happy for you getting the refferal in 10 days! Keeping my fingers crossed for your little baby girl-who waited about 6 months to be matched with her Mommy.
OMGosh a get-together would be so much fun!!! Babies, babies, and more babies!!! Girl, we would do exactly what you have done about the 2nd child that is so much closer to being cleared. You are going to get the child that was picked out for you and DH by a much higher power than the adoption agency so don't ever look back and wonder if you made the right choice. (((HUGS)))