Hi there, I have a friend who suffered a miscarriage and she was never was able to get over it. Two years down the line she is going for therapy. She has suggested adoption but says her husband refuses to raise somebody elses child and her marriage risks breaking up over this. I have told her I think he is being selfish, but that I think counselling might help. Of course, she has tried suggesting counselling but he refuses as he sees it as her problem. Any suggestions ?