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    There's no way I am having an abortion. And there sn't any way Iwould be able to handle having the baby then just giving up on it like that ): I would miss to see it grow up and have a life. I am hoping that the talk with my boyfriend will go alright, and maybe he will see just how much I have bonded with this baby already, and how hard it would be on me.
    I really am up for the chllenges of keep the baby, becuase I know Jake, my boyfriend will also stay by my side and help. He may not like it at first, but when we have it I'm sure he will be smiling ear to ear. At least I hope.
    After I can hopefully convince Jake, I will shortly then later tell my mom.
    I am very scared about telling my mom.. But I do know I need an ultrasound and medical attention asap to see if the baby is doing alright.

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    Coming in late here..but firstly...huge hugs to you...this must be a very scary time for you.

    I think if you tell you mum..she will initially be shocked and maybe angry..but it will be more anger that you didn't feel you could talk to her before...but I think you'll find she'll just want to wrap you in her arms and help you through all this.
    Don't shut her out....shes your mum and she will want to be there for you.
    She will be able to help you get all the help you need.
    If you need to talk..please feel free to pm me.
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    I will echo what the ladies said, please go talk to a trusted adult and please go talk to your mom. No matter what you decide you will need all the support you can get.

    This is a pivotal moment in your life and you will need to make the best decision for you and the baby.

    I wish only the best for you and I hope you'll keep us updated on your decision and your feelings as you move forward with whatever your choice may be.

    Good luck to you and I'm so sorry that you are in a difficult position.
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    I echo all the ladies that say to find someone you trust and talk to them. It is very hard to raise a child, regardless of age. I'm sorry to say that most young guys do not end up standing by you and helping with a child. They feel that it is not their responsibility. I wish you nothing but the best.

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    I agree with everyone... you NEED to talk to your Mom or a grown adult.... and SEE a doctor ASAP. I am sorry you are going through this at this young age.
    Please keep us posted and get help NOW.
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    Bump - wondering if you told your mom yet and if you went back to the doctor for a dating u/s.
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    Ashleii posted an update over on the November 2011 board.
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    Quote Originally Posted by raingirl28 View Post
    Ashleii posted an update over on the November 2011 board.
    thanks Rachel.
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    Thanks! That is all great news. I'm so happy she went to the dr, is keeping the baby and told her family.

    I know I said it before but my BFF had her DS at age 15 and yeah, it was tough to tell people and tough to adjust - but she is one of the best mothers I know. They are so close and her parents are really close to him as well. Sometimes it just takes time to get over the initial shock.
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    Just wanted to give you a BIG HUG! If you ever need to talk please feel free to message me! I hope everything is going well and that you have it figured out soon! Having a baby is quite the change no matter what age you are! Just know that there are tons of people out there to help and support you!!!!

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