Answer Box: Dh is ready to try for a baby. We've been together approx. 5 yr., own a small 2br home, & parent my older child from a previous relationship. I also work. The problem? My previous baby was huge; labor was horrible with lots of blood loss. Healing took 3 + months. I want another baby but am terrified to go through that again. I also don't want to leave my job and worry if our home can handle another. Please advise!