Hi everybody, I hope you can help with a little advice for my situation. I'm expecting our first baby and had a real slap in the face moment with my husband yesterday (NOT LITERALLY! just emotionally ) Basically DH has admitted that he can't see how he will ever bond with our child. The following is a rough account of what shocked me, he said "I dont see the point of stressing too much over the thing. My parents didn't come running when I cried, just relax. Babies are a little pointless until you can have a conversation with them anyway" HE CALLED OUT BABY A "THING"!!!!!!!!
Should I be worried? do all me feel like this? My husband is a good man, He supported me during my degree, runs his own business, would never let anything harm me. He said once that men get married because they want a wife, but women get married because they want a father for their children. Have I ended up with a syco or is his opinion normal?