uestion for the Answer Box (i.e. responses from YOU!): My MIL is wanting to travel cross country to us two weeks before my due date and to stay up to four weeks after the birth. While I love my in-laws, I don't want my *own* mom here! I want to enjoy this final time alone as a couple & later alone so that I can get to know my baby (and how to be a mom) without outsiders. Both dh & I have tried explaining but MIL continues with the guilt trips. I end most of our conversations in tears and dh is starting to cave. HELP!