Do you have a mutual friend together? Reason I ask is... maybe you could team up with such a person and do a "team cleanup." It is easy enough to pose it as a "we just want to do something nice" scenario VS "OMG you house is scary."
Maybe even lay in wait until she is ill again, and while she is laid up (hospital or otherwise) you can maybe make a dent in all that mess?
Sometimes people become blind to their situations... I imagine even more so if she is on medication all the time!
Me - Kristi, 30
DD - Leia, July 5 2008
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