DBF works nights so sometimes he leaves at 18:15. He is still asleep when we get home from work/school at 16:00 so I do our evening meal, then I will bath DD whilst he gets sorted for work and then he's gone by the time it's bedtime. Then he's gone all night so I deal with the growing pains, feeling sick, bad coughs through the night. DBF takes over in the mornings and does the morning routine ie breakfast, dressing and bringing her to school.
I do, my husband works split shifts so is not home at night and is still asleep in the mornings so all evening and morning routines are all me. Weekends he is usually at work at least one day, sometimes two depending on his roster that week and usually split shifts again so it's all me all the time