bf'ing that is! it's been three days of absolutely NO booby! cut her down to just bedtimes first then after the move and seeing that the toddler bed was making things better (ie she sleeps through the night now! she was rotating and getting stuck) i decided to try the naptime ritual for bedtime, snuggles and rocking then out light a light. the next step is to get her to go to sleep without the rocking. she goes down fine for papa with her music, won't go down for daddy, goes down for naps half the time for me while still awake, otherwise she needs that comfort rock. tried CIO, and modified version, she can scream and cry for hours (modified... naptime was three hours, just a test day, not doing that again!)
MY BODY IS ONCE AGAIN MY OWN!!! now if only half of it would pack up and leave!