So I've been planning a maternity photo shoot for over a month now. I asked DH if it would be ok to get it done and he was fine with it. A girl that I went to school with is trying to start up a photography business and she has offered to do a 30 minute session for $50, which I think is a really good deal. A couple weeks ago, we were in a bit of a tight money situation an DH was making a fuss about getting them done and I willingly agreed we didn't have to get them done, but even with his fussing, he said I should get them done because your only pregnant for the first time once. So I kept planning with the girl to get them done either this weekend or next. I was wanting to get them done at our local arboretum but I found out today that photographers have to purchase a membership in order to take pictures, so I decided to nix that because I didn't want to pay for the girls membership and I didn't want her to have to pay either. So I decided that we could just do the pictures on our neighborhoods private parks dock, since the lake is filling back up and it's looking pretty out. I just talked to DH a few minutes ago and told him about all of this and he said I wish we would've just taken the pictures ourselves. I said that would've been nice but I want you in the pictures too. Then he started complaining about having to get the new yearly key to the park and basically made it sound like a huge burden. I told him sorry that this seemed to be such a burden to him and that I had agreed earlier on that we didn't have to get these done and that I would hate to cancel this shoot a week or two before when we could've settled on taking our own pictures earlier in the decision making process. He said that it was fine, but after this he was going to start putting his foot down and that I needed to start doing the same thing too. Wtf is that supposed to mean? Anyway, I am extremely frustrated and upset right now! Sorry for the rant, but I'm done trying to talk to him about this.