We saw the specialist on Monday!! We didn't get the 3d/4D sono like originally told but we did get one heck of an awesome quality 2d ultrasound done. First, the flap isn't actually a flap. It's calcification on one of the tendons that move the valves in the heart. It doesn't cover the whole tendon...it's not something that will ever go away, but the specialist says its not something that will continue to get worse either. It's not messing with the beating of his heart so she doesnt think it will turn into a murmur and she said it doesn't increase chance of heart attack or stroke later in life either. It's just something he will always have but it shouldnt cause any other issues.
As far as the downs syndrome thing goes...this calcification is typically seen in babies with downs syndrome rather than (for lack of a better word) normal babies. However, there were NO other markers for downs syndrome that could be detected by sono!! WOO HOO!!! Risk of downs for my age group is 1 in 1040 but because of this, his risk is 1 in 520 so its really low. The specialist seemed VERY confident that everything is ok. She said there is no reason to see me back.
We have found much relief from this appt and I have found myself once again looking forward to Zaiden's arrival.
Oh, and I doubt this really means anything but in two weeks, my cervix went from 4 to 3 cm (thickness not dilation). Oh, AND...he is back to measuring about a week ahead overall. Wanna know how big his head is? 30 cm....that is exactly 3 weeks AHEAD!!! I'm in trouble when he decides to come!! lol