Sorry I haven't been keeping up much lately.
For the most part, it's because I've been unsure how much information that I want to divulge about Elijah's surgery on Friday. He will be having plastic surgery to fix some external issues with his man parts. Essentially, there isn't enough of an opening for urine to come out. Everything is trapped inside essentially by a wall of skin. I don't want to go into too much detail, because this is a public forum, but I decided I was ready to share.
I'm really anxious about it, even though I've known it would happen from the day he was born. They typically wait until 6 months, for the best results. He'll have to be under general anesthesia and then using narcotic pain medicine afterward. We had no plans to even circ, and this is like 10 times as invasive. I could just use some thoughts and prayers, because it's going to be hard letting my little man go into an OR, and then seeing him in pain and drugged after.