DH has been in charge of DD1's bedtime since Bree was born. Three nights ago, DD1 learned how to climb out of the crib. Bedtime has been chaos. It took DD1 two hours to settle down the first couple of nights, and more than an hour tonight. The sleeping baby has woken up crying every time. I asked DH if he had a plan for this a couple of weeks ago, and obviously he hasn't other than business as usual. Every time I try to talk about it, he gets all defensive and tries to play the "Maybe I should just go to Starbucks and you can do a better job without me" card. I've been working my butt off to get both girls to bed on my own every Wednesday when he gets home late. I'm sleep deprived and terrified of having to get DD1 to bed by myself two days from now.