So I've been having a bad week I guess.
Update: DD has been really good the past few days. Praying it stays that way.
As most of you may know already know my mom passed away. It will be 3 years in late Jan. My mom was young, she was in her mid 50's, so my dad is still young. He is 57. Now as much as it hurts I completely understand that he has to redo is life and find a woman. I'm not against it.
However, he has been paired up with a woman by my uncle and aunt and she lives in FL (we live in NJ). THey have been "seeing" each other (mostly phone) for several months now. I've never met her, but I have heard stories because my other aunt has and she didn't like her at all. My dad has decided to retire (it's offical already) and move to FL. He calls me last night and says "hey I bought a house today!" and I really couldn't hide my feelings I guess. I wasn't rude but I know I didn't sound happy. He's moving in with this lady he barely knows. I don't know what their intentions are, if they will get married. He has never introduced her to us and he is making such a huge decision without even asking us. I must admit, the thought of someone replacing my mom messes me up emotionally because my father treated my mother soooo bad for almost 30 years, put her thru hell, and now he's with this mystery woman and is treating her so good. I hate it! It drives me friekin' mad!! Believe me I have left out a lot but this will be the longet post in preg.org history if I continue...
My question is, are we being wrong as his kids to think that what he is doing is wrong and that he should have properly introduced this woman to us before he did this. He is moving to another state, leaving his kids and grandkids to be with this woman and expects us to just be happy. I'm sorry I just cant do it. He comes home today and I just really don't feel like talking to him. I may not even answer my phone.