Got my feelings hurt today...
I'm only 3 months in and I'm about ready to start punching everyone in the face that offers me "advice".
Here's what happened:
Saturday, I bought a bag of hot fries at work. I ate a few, mainly because I wanted something spicy/hot and left the bag at work. I've nibbled on them each day, but haven't really wanted them. Tuesday, a girl at the store I'm working at, came over and said something crappy about the bag of hot fries and baby doesn't need that and blahblahblah. We veered off that subject and started talking about God. I'm not gonna go into that convo on pg.org but, suffice it to say she was stepping on my toes a bit. Today she comes and asks me how I'm doing. I said fine, went to the doctor yesterday. She moves around my desk, grabs the hot fries and throws them in the TRASH. Now, my paychecks are super small because I have a garnishment out on me from when me and my ex were together. I'm driving way out of my way to go to this store and while I'm getting paid mileage, I haven't actually received any of it, so basically my checks are going in my gas tank and that's about it. I don't have money to be throwing food out, especially someone else throwing it out. So it really irked me that she did that. She started in on gaining weight and just because I'm pregnant doesn't mean eat everything in sight and that I don't want to be super fat and etcetc. I was like...look, I'm 20 lbs DOWN from the beginning of the pregnancy because I just can't eat and have been throwing up. If I feel like some hot fries are gonna stay down, I'm gonna attempt to eat them. I told her that bag has been there since Saturday and it still isn't gone and it's just a regular size bag of them. I'm a big girl, I get that, but don't come getting up in my face about gaining weight during pregnancy and throwing my stuff away. UGH.