So I went to Dh's cousin's bridal shower today and was talking with all his family members and one of his aunts asked if he was a happy baby or if he cried a lot. I said that he is a happy baby but that he was indeed colicky. Well Dh's grandma butted in and said "he cries because he is spoiled." I said " oh is that the reason, how is he spoiled?" She said I hold him too much. Ha!
Well in the beginning I did hold him because it was the only thing that soothed him...and the only thing that kept me sane. But now that he does not calm down being carried, I don't hold him. I just dare her to watch him scream for hours like I do. Ugh. She said this in front of everyone too, so embarrassing.