I really don't care one way or another what baby is, but I feel like I HAVE to know ASAP! I think part of it is that my 3 year old refuses to admit the possibility that it's anything but a baby sister, so if it's not, I need time to prepare him.
My Dr. only does gender u/s with the 20 week anatomy scan and I hate knowing we could find out a month sooner (especially since I'll be 19 weeks at our family Thanksgiving, the one time of the year the whole gang is together - it's just cruel to not let me do a gender reveal then!).
I called the 4D ultrasound place in Nashville that did my awesome 4D ultrasound with my son and scheduled a visit for Nov. 6, when I'll be 16 weeks. Only 6 more weeks to go!
I had a great 10 week u/s with my Dr. and heard the heartbeat loud and clear on u/s and Doppler. I am finally starting to accept that we might be bringing a new baby home in April.