Honestly, it's much easier for you if you don't have anything until you really go into labor. All the early labor and such can be really frustrating, so I've heard, and just gets your hopes up. Not having early labor also means you'll know it's the real thing when it happens. BH are a great sign your body is gearing up for labor and that's all you need!
Thank you girls! I really do feel alot better. Just got to stay positive