Last night, at about 1130pm, DH elbowed me right in the lip..HARD. I had JUST fallen asleep so I woke up crying and holding my mouth. He rolled over and kept asking to see it (hello, it's dark!)...and finally I got up and went to the bathroom. I peed and cried...he came in there and said he was sorry, but I was ticked off and kinda blew him off. I cried for a long time, got back in the bed (facing the other way) and fell asleep with a swollen mouth. (This isn't the first time that's happened, once when we first got together he was fighting someone in his sleep and punched me in the side of the head).
He called me this morning, apologizing over and over...saying things like "You know I'd never do that on purpose." Of course I know that! If he did - we wouldn't be married or having a baby. My lip is better now, no one could really tell this morning. He said his arm was asleep and he went to move it...didn't realize my head was so close. When I move around in bed, I'm VERY aware of where he is and where I can/can't move. He's not. I'm not mad at him, I know it was a mistake.. but things like this are the reason the baby is NOT sleeping in the bed with us.