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[FLOETRY]

Get Dh to go for his sencd S/A? We spoke at lenghts about it last month - he said he was going to make an appt for this month - since he hasn't taling the cream that the dermatologist gave him ( for those who are new - DH was using a topical cream fro over 2 1/2 years he has hair bumps on the nape of his neck due to hair cuts and sensitive skin- we just found out 2 months ago that the cream was to be only used for 2 weeks at a time -never read the small print and that it showed in lab rats reduced sperm :eek:- ok now tha I got yous caught up- how do I push him or shall i say steer him to make the appt should I make it for him? please give me some advise as it is a "sensitive" issue.topic? :confused:Thanks Flo

[mommaphoebs]

Oooooo, tough one. I don't think any man enjoys going, but it's for the greater good. I had to just keep coaxing/reminding my dh to get it done. I think he finally went just so I'd stop pestering him!

[Beertje]

My dh said that he was going to as well. I assumed he "forgot" or was too busy, so I made the appointment for him. He had no qualms that I took the initiative, since he said he would do it. It came back with low motility, so I made an appointment for him to see an urologist and actually went with him for his appointment to rule out any physical problems. While he was initially a bit uncomfortable when the dr had him in compromising positions, he actually was glad because I was the one with all the questions and thus removed the possibility of interrogation, loading him with questions he couldn't answer if he went alone.