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brash_beauty
08-03-2007, 09:17 AM
Hello Ladies :)

This is gonna get pretty long, so sit back and relax... have a tea and read. :)

I've been pretty scarce lately, and I wanted to apologize, and let you know why...

The past few years, I've been getting treatment for Migraines... the last few months, my headaches have been getting worse and worse, and more localized around the back of my head (around where you're wear a pony tail). The headaches would literally cause me to fall over, I'd see flashing firefly lights, and the back of my head THROBS, like, on a scale of 1-10, it's a 10... it only lasts for about 30-40 seconds, but it's a terrible few seconds.

My primary care doctor, who I LOVE, did an MRI, and after spending Wednesday in the emergency room with this terrible headache, we come to find out I was born with something called a Chiari 1 Malformation... Chiari Malformation (Arnold-Chiari) is a serious neurological disorder where the bottom part of the brain, the cerebellum, descends out of the skull and crowds the spinal cord, putting pressure on both the brain and spine and causing many symptoms

In short, what it means is that it's almost like my brain is too big for my head, and it's trying to escape out the hole my brainstem/spinal cord go thru (That's pretty much how my mom explained it. I have a big brain :) )

They don't know why it wasn't diagnosed before, probably because my other doctor was more determined to treat me for depression headaches then anything else (the Chiari symptoms are at times confused with depression symptoms)

They have me on muscle relaxers and some pain killers to take the edge off, but there really is no treatment for it. The only way to try to cure it, is surgery, which isn't 100%. (it works fantastic in about 80% of patients) So now I have to meet with a neurologist, and a neurosurgeon and see what we can do...

The surgery is about 3-4 hours, and it's not brain surgery, it's just removing a little piece of bone in my neck, to take the pressure off. See... if it gets worse, because of the pressure on my spine, it can cause issues like paralysis.... and that's not good. Average recovery time spans from a few weeks up to a year depending on the person... so it could be a while before we start our family depending on what the doctors say.

Sean and I have decided to hold off on TTC until we know more, and since I'll be on pain meds, it's not safe to TTC anyway. We're staying positive, but it's alot to handle, expecially since we're so close to nearing our 1 year TTC date in September when we could move on to more fertility options.

Everything happens for a reason, and I know everything will work out in the long run. It's just a lot to handle right now.

chloesgirl
08-03-2007, 05:33 PM
OH Kristen, Girl what ever happens please keep in touch with us and let us know how you are doing. Even if Sean has to do it for you!! Girl I wish you all the best :bigarmhug: I really do not wish for you to leave us, but understand if you have to. You have my email so please feel free to email me any time for a chat.

oimiloy
08-03-2007, 10:32 PM
oh wow. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this!! I'm sure it doesn't mean much from me, but having a 'cause' for the horrific headaches must be some relief, even if it's a horrible disorder! (that sounds really heartless, but i'm sure you know what i mean....)

Whan are you seeing the surgeons? I hope that they can give you some more answers. PLEASE KUP.

:bighug: once again, i'm sorry that this has to happen, please know that i'm thinking of you and Sean, and wish you both all the best with everything.

lauren.groom
08-04-2007, 02:39 PM
Oh Wow :shock:

But, I'm very glad that you were diagnosed before the condition got worse. I will miss you doing your little dances around here so you can't go too far.

Please KUP on everything and I'll be thinking of you and wishing you well in the mean time!

Beertje
08-04-2007, 08:53 PM
What horrible news! I really hope they're able to alleviate your pain. My prayers are with you!

brash_beauty
08-04-2007, 11:02 PM
Thanks Ladies :)

As soon as we know what we need to do, and we're all set, we'll be back on the TTC wagon!!!

I'll be lurking about :)

achattylady
08-05-2007, 11:46 PM
:bighug:

I hope they get you fixed up soon and back on the ttc road!!

marcellemur
08-08-2007, 03:42 AM
Ah girl, so sorry to hear your news. But I'm glad you and your docs have caught it in time. Will be thinking of you and wishing you all the best!!!

MYTHREEANGLES78
08-12-2007, 10:38 PM
I'M VERY SORRY TO HEAR EVERYTHING THAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH...I'M BELIEVE EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON TOO...I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!!! AND I'LL BE SURE TO PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR DH.