maybethisismymonth
09-12-2007, 04:39 PM
Well I went back to the RE today to decide what steps to take next and he recomended IVF. He was not pushy like the other RE. He said that I was young and that we had time, but Endo grows back so we do not want not wait to long or risk having more surgery. He said that we could talk it over and try on our own for a while because miracles do happen. I asked him for a % of the chance that it could happen natural and he said slim to none, but not impossible.
So basically I have a slim to none chance all alone. DH says that it will happen natural because he believes that it will because of his faith, he and his family also said that they believed my endo would be gone and here I am 6 surgeries later. I think that god gave us IVF for a reason. SO I am not going to live in the sugar coated world of I KNOW we are not going to have to do IVF. DH has a perfect family and was never let down as a kid as I am the opposite I was let down all the time. I am not try to be a downer I am just trying to be neutral. So as we stand we are going to try on our own for a few cycles and then we will be looking at IVF in Jan if it does not happen. SIGH!
I am so discouraged. :confused:
Oh I almost forgot, I did not even talk to him about the lawyer because he had 2 interns in with him and I did not want to talk about it in front of them. He told me today that I got an infection from that other RE because of that procedure they did on me and told me my really only chance of having a child was IVF and that was the two things the lawyer needed to know. Cant they just read his notes instead of having to call him?
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So basically I have a slim to none chance all alone. DH says that it will happen natural because he believes that it will because of his faith, he and his family also said that they believed my endo would be gone and here I am 6 surgeries later. I think that god gave us IVF for a reason. SO I am not going to live in the sugar coated world of I KNOW we are not going to have to do IVF. DH has a perfect family and was never let down as a kid as I am the opposite I was let down all the time. I am not try to be a downer I am just trying to be neutral. So as we stand we are going to try on our own for a few cycles and then we will be looking at IVF in Jan if it does not happen. SIGH!
I am so discouraged. :confused:
Oh I almost forgot, I did not even talk to him about the lawyer because he had 2 interns in with him and I did not want to talk about it in front of them. He told me today that I got an infection from that other RE because of that procedure they did on me and told me my really only chance of having a child was IVF and that was the two things the lawyer needed to know. Cant they just read his notes instead of having to call him?
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