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Am i alone here?

Cycle 10
August here I am

Not sure what's happening with me
Was 4days late and af came Sad but tested and got BFN:(

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Hey Katie, I'll join you over here too! That happened to me this cycle, AF was 3 days late, tested BFN. I'm waiting for DH to get home from work so we can get started on this 'fertile week'. hahah

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CD 2 over here, I don't think I will get pregnant anytime soon, still in the erratic PP time, but I will board hop and cross my fingers.

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I'm not hre yet but hoping this will the last of board hopping for you all. I'm hoping I won't join you here next week, but we will see

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I see some familiar Ppl unfortunately
But at least we're together and not alone

Hoping this is it for all of us
Sticky vibes and baby dust!!!!

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I've been having O pains all day, coupled with a killer headache and extreme fatigue. I'll most likely O tomorrow. How is everyone else feeling?

Wendy- I hope you don't join us here! I hope this is it for you!

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Hi Ladies!! Well I'm CD 16, had our 3rd IUI yesterday...so if we get pg this time around, EDD would be July 30/31 - so I'll be happy to board hop. Smile

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Good Luck Marie!!

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I'm July 31st but it looks like I'm o'ing super late this month so if all goes according to plan it may be an August baby. Either way, I'll probably board straddle.

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Won't lie, it's nice to see some familier Ppl. But in poor situation.
Let's get em ladies let's land our eggs!

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Where is everyone at?

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I am lurking, only because of where my cycle is at, which is LONGER than I need it to be. Will start PrimulutN tonight to try and kick start it back to regularity.

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Hi Ladies! Currently 6 DPIUI. I tested this morning...ONLY b/c I wanted to see if the Trigger Shot was still in my system. and BFN! which makes me happy that it's gone, so I'll prob start testing Saturday (10 DPIUI)

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4 DPO. based on late o, my EDD would be August 1. I go for bloodwork tomorrow (sugar and progesterone), then back to the dr on Monday for all the results. DH will be going for his SA this week - reluctantly lol.

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Fingers crossed for good news!

I booked apt for next week, my DH isn't so thrilled about an SA and hoping he doesn't have too. Sad frustrated

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Katie not sure where in Ontario you are, but DH called yesterday for his appointment and can't get in until Dec 4 - I was super surprised that 1. You even need an appt and 2. That it would take so long

Does this mean that November is no longer your end date?

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Julie,
We're in Niagara Falls, Ontario
My doc appt is Tuesday, and DH apparently has an apt for week of Nov 25th but he's so not liking it.

Re:end date.
We're still in November, never know maybe the magic will work but have reconsidered a new end because of going to docs and seeing what's happening
You?

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I'm freaking out here ladies!

So AF came Aug 26th, then nothing until Oct 4th and going by my menstrual cycle, she should have been here Nov 11th and still nothing. I have wiped and had pinkish stains so she is probably on her way but I am just so confused as to why AF has suddenly gone hay wire! Any ideas?

xx

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Hello Chickadees, guess I'm over here as well, CD 1 will be the next few days as I stopped progesterone today

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"Katie2011" wrote:

Julie,
We're in Niagara Falls, Ontario
My doc appt is Tuesday, and DH apparently has an apt for week of Nov 25th but he's so not liking it.

Re:end date.
We're still in November, never know maybe the magic will work but have reconsidered a new end because of going to docs and seeing what's happening
You?

I'm in Toronto. Apparently it's harder to get your swimmers tested here!

As far as end date, I dunno. I got a refer all to a specialist for April. April. I scoffed. If I'm not pg by April I'm not starting fertility tests/treatments then - I can't hold on to this for that long. So I guess I've set an end date, I'm just not totally sure what it is.

(And I'm going to argue to my GP that I shouldn't have to wait until April...I see her on Monday)

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"UpBeachMom" wrote:

I'm in Toronto. Apparently it's harder to get your swimmers tested here!

As far as end date, I dunno. I got a refer all to a specialist for April. April. I scoffed. If I'm not pg by April I'm not starting fertility tests/treatments then - I can't hold on to this for that long. So I guess I've set an end date, I'm just not totally sure what it is.

(And I'm going to argue to my GP that I shouldn't have to wait until April...I see her on Monday)

Oh wow! That's a really long time, exp because it's been. 9months or around that so far trying.
I'm not waiting til April that's for sure, I'm thinking January and that will be realistic. I can't go on. The stress isn't good for any of us.

Toronto does take longer, and can't believe we're not that far from each other.

Well good luck Monday. I'll let you know what is going on with us too

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Hi Ladies, spotting started today so I'm now onto an August cycle.

It's possibly my last month TTC ever, or at least the last one until April. We have a big family trip planned for November next year and I don't want a baby under 8 weeks or be so pregnant I can't fly on the plane so that puts us at March or so and I don't want a December baby so April would be when we would TTC again. I'm so hoping I don't have to make that decision and I'm pregnant this next cycle. I'm a bit torn up about it, because I really wanted a bigger family but maybe this is meant to be and I need to "move on" to raising my kids. Financially two kids is the better bet for sure. *sigh* why is this so hard!

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I hope that decision is removed from you and we are both staring at two lines in a month. At least your LP was longer this month, I hope thats a good sign

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Mel, I feel the same way, maybe it's time Sad
*heartboken monthly *

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Mel, I feel the same way, maybe it's time Sad
*heartboken monthly *

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Sad I'm sorry Katie! Hugs! It's so hard to feel this hopeless about having another child.

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Yea, and considering we have two, who would have thought it would be so hard

Sad

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yep, ditto! I have two kids who I got pregnant with ridiculously easy. I keep questioning if maybe this just isn't meant to be.

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So I find out today if IUI is a go this month, CD 14 and 15 are a Saturday and Sunday so the clinic is closed. I usually O CD 16 so that would be ok but no trigger then and also who knows what my body will do with the clomid

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Hey all! I ovulated yesterday, so I'm in the 2ww! I haven't read the thread yet, but going to back to read now.

Because I have PCOS, I test w/ OPK occasionally and Friday/Sat was blazing positive. It's back down today. It was a fluke I tested, but glad I did. Look forward to spending the next two weeks w/ you!

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IUI is on, I start clomid today. I really hope this is it. Hubby has always joked we will have twins and years ago I had my cards read and she said there were two little girls yet to be waiting with me. I've always felt that these girls were twins, so maybe it's in my future.

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Oh so very exciting!!
Best of luck!!

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Wendy -

I got twin girls w/ my clomid/ovidrel/iui cycle. So it's def a possibility - good luck! Are you getting monitored before iui? How many follicles? Are you a soul cyster, if you don't mind me asking!

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"hopin2bpreggermeggers" wrote:

Wendy -

I got twin girls w/ my clomid/ovidrel/iui cycle. So it's def a possibility - good luck! Are you getting monitored before iui? How many follicles? Are you a soul cyster, if you don't mind me asking!

I would be happt with Just one baby as well right now. I will go for a scan on cd11 and find out from there what monitoring schedule they will have me on. This month out will likely be cd 13 with a trigger shot sent home to do. Swill find out how many follicles at my scan, I live an hour Nd. A half from the clinic and work full time so too many appointments is hard. Not sure what a soul cyster is sorry so I'm guessing I'm not. I have had to travel down the path of fertility treatments after falling pregnant first month with my son, then coming to now at nearly two years TTC and being told I have unexplained secondary infertility. Clomid is because the doctor wanted more control and more follies from my cycle

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Hi Meg, welcome!

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Pretty sure I am out for the month as we only DTD once early last week, would probably make it easier if I weren't all "don't touch me!!!", think it's my body just telling me to wait a bit longer, if this doesn't get better by the first of the year I will have to go to the doctor to find out what sorts of things can be done to fix my whatever is wrong with me.

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If your tickers are accurate your littlest one is 5 months. Your body might be telling you spacing your kids too close is not a good idea. As much as your heart wants it, less than 9 months between baby's birth and getting pregnant with your next is not good for your body. Sad Not being critical, just suggesting that maybe you aren't feeling much desire due to your baby's young age?

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Well ladies, AF is arriving. 4 days early. I made a call to my doctor, I'm going to have him check my progesterone, but maybe this is normal? Before my m/c I was clockwork, every 28 days. After having the 2 d&c's I've had 24, 30 and now 24.

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"tink9702" wrote:

If your tickers are accurate your littlest one is 5 months. Your body might be telling you spacing your kids too close is not a good idea. As much as your heart wants it, less than 9 months between baby's birth and getting pregnant with your next is not good for your body. Sad Not being critical, just suggesting that maybe you aren't feeling much desire due to your baby's young age?

I figured it is probably something like that. I know it's not technically healthy, but most of my siblings have a one year space (my older two brothers within just days and my younger two sisters within about two weeks) and I wanted that sort of spacing. The more months between them, makes me just want to wait even longer, so may just get on BC in January for a while..

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My kiddos are spaced 17 months and 16 days apart. I got pregnant on purpose with DD when DS was 9 months so I totally understand wanting your kids spaced close together. Smile