I'm thinking that it's hitting a nerve the way you're wapping. I know I've ran across a couple of mentions of this from others on TBW. Maybe look into other carries that hit you differently? There are torso only carries.
Sadly every other wrap I've tried is not doable with my too short wrap.
Good news is, though, that we put a crap load of money into our flexible spending account for our son's dental needs and the dentist wants to wait 2 more years to do his palatal expander because his anxiety over dental pain and his poor motor function influencing his ability to clean it well... anyway we just found out that we can use that money towards massages! My chiropractor didn't know what to do with me cause my shoulders are so tight and knotted. I am sure that it's part of what's causing the tingling and numbness while wearing her. So I am scheduling a massage as soon as I can get in.
Today, I wore her out to bring in the trash cans and mail and about 5 different cars drove by and every single one of them smiled really big at her. You just don't see ladies wearing their babies in this town. I love that I made someone smile today.
I've been super busy recently. And tons of wearing being done! It's how I do laundry, dishes, vacuum, shop, and more. Yesterday I had Zoe up in a FWCC while I did laundry and dishes. When she fell asleep I moved her to a ruck back carry and vacuumed and picked up after my son. Last night I wore her in a FWCC again as she slept during part of the super bowl. Today I used a ring sling while out shopping for a couple of hours. I broke out the wrap and back wrapped her for going over to the neighbors. I had to BF her while there and then I put her back on my back. I may have given my neighbor a mini heart attack.
No wearing, mr independent always wants to walk everywhere, however Jackie has made me a wrap converter and I have a woven on the way, I had hoped by the end of the week. but she got to the post office late so maybe Monday. I am out side the next day guarantee network, but for $2 extra post I figured I would at least aim for getting it sooner. Now just waiting on having a squish on the way to get excited to use it. I may be lending it do a day care Mum to use with her squish on the way in April as she is interested in a woven and wearing.