I was contacted by the school district's PT. They wanted to do an evaluation for PT for Emily and set up a 504 plan. I'm looking at this positively. However, DH is throwing a "fit". He thinks Emily doesn't need "help" nor does she need the 504. It's the school's way of pushing paperwork and using up money for things they don't have. Plus I think secretly he's afraid they're "labeling" her as special needs.
I feel this might help her and keep things "legal" as far as some of the things we want to make sure they do for her -- i.e. bathroom breaks when needed and drinking water. He thinks those are common sense and shouldn't be put in "anything" formal.
So, I don't know how to go about this, since I work and he's at home. I want to make sure Emily has everything she needs and any help in my opinion is "helpful". He's being bullheaded.
We have a Parent-Teacher conference tomorrow night where the PT will also be there. I had wanted to present a unified front, but that apparently isn't going to happen.
I'm so frustrated and don't know what to do.