If I can keep the stress down i am hoping labor want be as bad.
That is a tough situation to be dealing with at this point. Just because this guy has other kids to support does not mean he should get away with not having to support this child. You are not the bad guy, he is.
Molly & Elton 10/2/04
Mary 5/24/06, Celia 6/9/09
Baby #3 due 6/21/13
Hanging in there as best as possible. I will probably lose my car come June which will lead to having to quit my job and go on TANFA (Welfare) until I can get on my feet its sad because I havent had to in 8 yrs. I am afraid to tell my family they will be disappointed. But a lesson learned that you can only count on yourself *sigh*
Sorry to hear that You have done great to not have to use it for 8 years as a single mom of 2. I hope things get better for you.
I mentioned your child support situation to my DH and he said that you should get the child support because Tyler is the BD's baby, too, and him leaving and not paying child support is an unfair burden on you. He says that him playing it would be him accepting his share of the responsibility for his child and not paying it would be giving all of that responsibility to you, which isn't fair.
Your DH sounds like a keeper your lucky. But thank him for the advice. I going take it. Hopefully the judge will be fair(Ok see it my way Lol).
I had my 38 wk appt today I am 1 1/2 cm and he did a sweep. I am going to be induced on the 18th if I dont go sooner. I just tell this lil one just hang out until the 15th (last day of work). I hurt right now but i think thats just from the sweep but I am packing and reading about nautral birth. Lol its like craming for a exam or test lol.
Last edited by singlemomoftwo; 05-10-2009 at 05:34 PM.
I guess the cramps turned out to be just from the exam and sweep? What made you decide to schedue the induction for the 18th?