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Question for the experienced

Need your help ladies since you have already given birth. My doc has told me that I can elect to do a C section if I want. However, I am not sure what is the best way to go. Seems like for every vaginal delivery horror story there is also a C Section horror story. On the other hand, for every person who say they prefer vaginal delivery, there's another person who says they would do C section every time. Also seems like when given the choice all of the celebrities choose C sections. My biggest concern is complications. With vaginal delivery , you can risk losing control of your bladder and bowels permanently and that terrifies me. I only have one friend who has done both and she said there's good and bad with both and she's not sure what she would do if she had another kid. I am so confused at this point I could scream! What are your thoughts and experiences- especially if you have done both ways?

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Need your help ladies since you have already given birth. My doc has told me that I can elect to do a C section if I want. However, I am not sure what is the best way to go. Seems like for every vaginal delivery horror story there is also a C Section horror story. On the other hand, for every person who say they prefer vaginal delivery, there's another person who says they would do C section every time. Also seems like when given the choice all of the celebrities choose C sections. My biggest concern is complications. With vaginal delivery , you can risk losing control of your bladder and bowels permanently and that terrifies me. I only have one friend who has done both and she said there's good and bad with both and she's not sure what she would do if she had another kid. I am so confused at this point I could scream! What are your thoughts and experiences- especially if you have done both ways?

hey sorry i haven't done both ways as i only have one child. it can go either way but in my opinion a vaginal birth is a more natural way and i feel as if you have a better bond through giving birth instead of a c section but my sister says that since she has had a c section she will never have another vaginal birth. it is completly up to you what you do though.