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    I hope you can get an anti-intervention nurse when you check in. I really think the nurses I had for both deliveries really helped out & made things easier for me. Plus, the possibility of the CPS stuff (which I'll say again I think is total cr@p!) makes it really important for you.

    That's cool the hospital has a birthing tub -- do they actually let you deliver in it? Is that something you're even interested in? They had tubs in each room at my hospital, but you can't deliver in it -- just for laboring.
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    I really hope you get a nurse that is okay with your refusal of interventions, I can relate to the fear of CPS being called on you. I have the same thing to contend with when I deliver, but in NYC it is pretty standard practice to have CPS called on you for refusal of certain newborn procedures (Vit K and eye goop).
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    Here is my DD's birth story =- WARNING _ It's LONG!!!!

    Well on Friday I started feeling kinda wet - and I was worried my water was getting a slow leak - but I finally came to the conclusion that it was just increased CM.... and it continued through till labor started. By Saturday I had began to spot pink, and so I knew something was happening, but figured it would still be quite a while since I still felt totally normal and no contractions, etc.... This continued on till Sunday. Then Sunday DH and I decided to run some errands because my sister was coming to stay with us for a week or two and we wanted to go get some groceries so she could help me cook some casseroles while we waited for baby to arrive. I truely believed I'd go overdue (but she was born at exactly 39 weeks).

    Sunday mornign I was still spotting, DH and I started making the shopping list and he made a pot of coffee. But the coffee pot decided to not work anymore - and so we also wrote on our list to go to the kitchen/bath shop to get another because we were having a homebirth and figured the MW's might want some coffee...... I called the MW's just to let them know I'd been spotting for a couple days (because just Tuesday when i had seen them, I had no signs of labor at all) but neither of them answered and I decided it wasn't a big deal and I didn't leave a message.
    So we went to the store - they didn't have the kind of cofee pot we wanted, and then we went to the grocery store. We got all our groceries and while we were in the check-out line, I felt a little gush of fluid - not much really - so I assumed it was just more CM.... then I got another gush - bigger this time and I began to worry that it was my water that had broken and I knew by how it felt that my pantiliner was now full. But it still wasn't so much fluid that it was dripping or anything and I wasn't totally convinced that it was my water. (this was 3:30pm on Sunday).... So we checked out our groceries - and walked to the parking lot. Dh loaded the groceries in the trunk and I went to sit down in the car, this time another small gush - so I was pretty sure it was my water.... I was wearing a dress and a pair of shorts underneath and by now i could tell some of my shorts were damp. So before we left the parking lot - i called my MW's - but niether of them answered their phones - and I didn't leave messages yet, wanted to see if things would pick up....

    So we drove the 30 minutes home - without a coffee pot and DH started noticing I was rubbing my tummy - I told him it was feeling crampy off and on and that I think my water broke a little bit.... so he timed me everytime I held my tummy. I was having contractions every 9-12 minutes and they were lasting about 40 seconds.

    So we got home and i just timed my contractions every once and a while. I called my MW back and she answered - I told her that I think my water had broken and the contractions were still spoardic. She told me to call back when they got into a good pattern and were 5 minutes apart. Plus - I never got the GBS test run because I decided I'd want antibiotics regardless at 18-24 hours if my water broke early - positive or not..... which meant I had a time-limit. So the contractions got to about 8 minutes apart and lasting 45-60 seconds. They were annoying - but not painful.

    At 8pm, my MW called me back to check on me. She was kinda disappointed to learn that my contractions weren't getting stronger, and sent me out to get some castor oil (because at this point I had to get baby out by 10am Monday - or else my homebirth would have to transfer to hospital...... So DH and I went back out and I sent him in to get the oil, and some rootbeer to make a float with to drink the oil - but the pharmacy didn't have any rootbeer, either did the gas station - so we ended up going back to the grocery store. By now my contractions were 7-8 minutes, but still not strong.

    I got home, made myself a rootbeer/castor oil float and just as I finished it, my MW's called back - still not much going on, so they told me to call them in the middle of the night or whenever I needed them to come over for the birth. They also wanted me to try some nipple stimulation to get things going stronger - I tried it, but it didn't help - so I used my electric pump for about 45 minutes - that did nothing either, so around 10pm I went to bed. I slept through my contractions till around 11:45 when I was woken up by cramping and a stronger contraction that lasted almost a minute. I decided it was just gas pain from the castor oil and drifted off back to sleep - but was woken back up with another about 7 minutes later. So I laid there for a third one and finally decided to get out of bed to help things along.

    I let DH sleep. At around 2am my contractions started coming every 4 minutes - lasting about 45 seconds - not quite strong enough to need the MW's, but I thought I should call them since they live about an hour from my house... The MW told me to call back when they were painful enough to breathe through them. So I went back to laboring on my ball in the living room and pacing around the house trying to keep the contractions going. DH woke up around 3:30 and checked on me. The MW's called back around 4 and said they were coming over even though they thought it would still be a while. By now I started having several loose stools, which meant the castor oil was working. Just about 4:30 I got sick and threw up - and It made my contractions start coming a bit stronger, but not much. The MW's arrived at 5am. and checked me. I was 3cm and 0 station, and she easily stretched me to 4cm.

    The MW's drank tea - and coffee DH made by tea-bag method by tying a coffee filter shut. DH and I walked for a while, I tried more nipple stim in the shower, sat on the birth ball, etc. but nothing seemed to make the contractions much stronger. I did finally get to the point where I had to breathe through them - but still not too bad. All the pain was in my tummy and it felt good to lean forward on DH.

    By 9am,. the MW's wanted to go on a walk with us down our 1/4 mile long dirt road. I only had an hour left to get the baby born before being transfered to the hospital. At the end of our walk we talked about what to do - they agreed to let me stay home till 11 if I wanted, just to see, but that it may not be enough time - depending on how my cervix was doing - and the fact that my contractions were still only 4-5 minutes apart. So I decided that they could check me now and if I was not close - I'd go to the hospital to get antibiotics. We thought that if a good doc was on call - that they may just give the antibioitics and I could come back home - but the OB on-call was not willing to do that. So they checked me at 10, and I was 5cm and kinda stretchy, so they figured I would probably be a 6 soon - but that an 11:00 baby didn't look very likely. So we packed up some stuff and the MW drove us to the hospital.

    I didn't have a single contraction during the entire 30 minute drive. One of my MW's is actually also a labor and delivery nurse at my hospital - and was due to work her shift that night from 3-11...... so I was lucky that she got to be my "nurse" as well.

    Once I got to the hospital, I still had no contractions - and so the MW's went to the cafeteria to get some lunch while I got my antibiotics and was hooked to the monitor for 20 minutes. I took a little cat-nap and finally around 2 my contractions started back up - much stronger now.

    The MW'S came back and noticed right away something was different. So they sat with me and DH while I labored. It was so nice having them all there. At 3 one of my MW's (Debbi) left to get her nurse clothes on and sign-in to work. She came back as my nurse and my other MW was still there (Marla) - sorta being my doula (since niether have delievery privleges at the hospital due to policy problems in VA)....

    Ever since my contractions started back up at the hospital - It hurt in my tailbone and back a LOT.... and so DH was with me- letting me lean on him, and my MW Marla was putting pressure on my tailbone. It helped - but not much.

    At 4pm (24 hour after my water broke) the OB came in. She was not my doctor - but I'd met her before and she was really good (she delivered 2 of my doula clients babies). She checked me and said I was at 7cm.

    When she left - I labored by leaning on the birthball that was on the bed and Debbi filled the tub. I got in the tub and tried all sorts of positions to ge comfortable - but the tail-bone labor was too intense, nothing was making it feel better - not even the pressure Marla was doing was helping at all anymore. I was on my hands and knees in the tub for about an hour and then decided to sit - that kinda helped - but by then my contractions were coming with only about 30 seconds between them. They were very intense - and I thought for sure my tailbone was going to break off.....

    Debbi came back in and checked me at 5. I was 9cm - almost 10. and I started feeling pushy....So she told me not to push if I could help it.... but by the 3rd contraction I couldn't help it....so the MW checked again and said I was fully dilated - but had a lip of cervix and so she held it back on my next contraction and it went away.

    I had about 6 more contractions while in the tub and Marla and DH were rubbing my back and helping me stay focused. The pushing got so strong that I couldn't do anything but push - and it made me push REALLY long (like 30 second long pushes). It was so intense I was worried I wouldn't be able to keep it up. Plus my tailbone was SOOO painful by now! Debbi said that she paged the OB (who had to catch the baby even though I would rather have had Marla or Debbie do it).... and I planned to get out of the tub and be on my hands and knees for pushing, or maybe squatting.... because I knew from research/doula-ing that being on your back/tailbone makes you more likely to tear......

    But when I got out of the tub- the only way I could be with those strong pushing contractions was sitting on my tailbone. any other position was terrible. I think it was the counterpressure that made sitting tolerable. The OB came in and watched me push through one contraction - she said I was a great pusher and couldn't believe that I was pushing that hard for 40 seconds or more without taking a break. She kept trying to tell me to do 3-4 pushes per contraction - but I could only ever get 1 or 2 pushes in because they were just SOOOOOOO long and SOOOOO strong that I couldn't have stopped them if I tried.

    My sister had been driving all day to VA from GA to be there for us - and she arrived at 5:50pm - and Rosalie was born at 6:04.

    I ended up having a 2nd degree tear partially because of my position, and partially because I couldn't ease up on my pushing at all when she was crowning and coming too fast and hard because of how I was pushing - but I couldn't stop when they told me to slow down my pushing.....

    Rosalie's apgars were 9 and 9 and she took several tries to start nursing, but now she is really good at it. I think everything went really well! I was so happy to have my 2 MW's, DH and my sister there. And though I was SOOO hoping for a HB etc., I know that I did the best thing because I would have been a worry-wart these first few days if I would not have gotten the antibiotics since my water was broken for so long. I'm really happy about how everything turned out

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    Today's update:

    37 weeks tomorrow - I've been on spring break from work all this week, but spent most of it traveling to MI to see family, then home for one day, and my MIL has been here the last 2 days. DH has had a fever off and on, DD has had 1-2 bouts of the runs each day and neither of them have been eating much. I REALLY don't need to get their germs right now.

    I did get a chance to finish the quilt I made for the baby though. I use it for a floor blanket really - not in the crib, but it does match the crib set i'm making.
    I have to go back to work tomorrow for 3 more weeks. SOOOO not looking forward to it. I'm feeling resentful of work when I really just want to sleep and garden while I wait for baby. It doesn't help that DD is up crying every hour all night long w/ a stomach ache.
    I did also manage to plant 3 flats of seeds this morning for our garden. Lots of great things: 4 varieties of tomatoes, 3 varieties of sweet peppers, 2 hot peppers, eggplant, 3 kinds of zucchini, all sorts of herbs - and DH's favorite - basil - which I planted 4 varieties.
    It's raining today though, so I'm up for a nap, though I'd rather just dig in the dirt instead and plant the alyssum seeds that will hopefully cover our front muddy hill w/ flowers this year.... hopefully by this fall we will be able to get a load of dirt and hire someone to re-grade it, but until then I just need the dirt covered so it doesn't wash away.
    Baby is kicking a lot and hurting my left ribs when I sleep on that side - so yeah, fun. I'm enjoying this last pregnancy though.
    I get Friday the 2nd off of work, so I'm having playgroup at my house for an egg hunt, then a 1:00 doula appt., then a 3:00 doc. appt. for DH to schedule his vasectomy....

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    I told DH about your GR experience and he was not at all surprised.
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    Thank you for posting your DD birth story! I love reading natural birth stories for first births - I have this hangup that "first births are always the hardest" and fear that I'll just turn into a mess and beg for an epidural.

    Sorry to keep a side thread going in your lodge, but when I lived in GR, GVSU began offering domestic partner benefits for its employees. Several of the large businesses in the community, who also happened to be clients of my employer, said they would no longer donate to GVSU because of this. I was on the diversity committee for my firm and had been pushing an initiative to also offer domestic partner benefits, and I was flatly told from one of the rainmakers at the firm that no way would this happen because we would lose the business of those certain clients.

    After I left the firm, that rainmaker was disbarred for misusing firm funds and his major client went through a bankruptcy with several issues arising about misuse of funds by the owner... way to go karma!

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    Quote Originally Posted by klmj View Post
    I hope you can get an anti-intervention nurse when you check in. I really think the nurses I had for both deliveries really helped out & made things easier for me. Plus, the possibility of the CPS stuff (which I'll say again I think is total cr@p!) makes it really important for you.

    That's cool the hospital has a birthing tub -- do they actually let you deliver in it? Is that something you're even interested in? They had tubs in each room at my hospital, but you can't deliver in it -- just for laboring.
    Yes, they do let you deliver in it, but they want you to get out when it's time to deliver the placenta. I just am not certain I'll like the tub. It has a seat in it, arm rests, etc. And I'm much taller than the average person, so I'm not sure how comfortable it will be to use it. I mostly see myself in a tub, more on my knees, leaning forward, and I can't see how I'd be able to do that if there is a hard plastic seat moulded into the bottom of the tub. I'm going to ask for it though when I arrive - even if I don't birth in it, at least it's a warm tub in my room.
    The actual birthing rooms are nice - wood floors etc., but the only have a toilet/sink, and no shower or tub. If I want to use a shower or jacuzzi tub during labor I'd have to go down the hall and use the ones that are in tiny rooms and lined up side-by-side, and if you get pushy, they make you get out and go back to your room.

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    That's weird they have a seat molded into the bottom. I spent most of my time in the tub on my knees leaning forward. That or standing. I hope you can get the room with the tub!!
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    It's not a room w/ a tub - they only have one birthing tub - and it's the moulded one. They wheel it into your room and fill it for you if it's not already in use.

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    TFS your birth story!
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