We just found out we are having baby #3. DS was a really hard birth, I went 3 days and to 6 cm before getting the epi and pitocin and having lots of complications and another day of labor (he was sunny side up and stuck and early so they couldn't help him till I was 37 weeks). With DD I went totally natural. It was fast (about 4 hours) and I always said if we had a 3rd then I would go natural again. But when I found out I was actually pg I got scared. The first thing I thought was that I want an epi, I don't think I can handle doing it again. We thought we were done with having kids, this one is a surprise. How do I get over this fear? Addie's birth was so intense. Sorry I'm venting on you guys, I just don't know where else to vent to.