I'm pretty sure DH and I have decided on a midwife! The one I really liked we talked to on the phone last night so DH got to talk to her as well and get to know her a little bit and we all seemed to connect pretty well! She likes her natural stuff but she also knows when it's appropriate to go to a doctor. She is very balanced. The only things she can't do is a c-section, of course, and give pain meds. She can do everything else, even run an IV. She has the personality that DH and I like too. She is very bubbly and friendly.
So now everything is figured out now. Just waiting to start trying to conceive and eventually figure out what we will do with the boys. But that can wait.