and asking a lot of questions with the midwife i'm pretty sure we will be going with. She is opening up an office the end of this month just 15-20 minutes away from me. I also asked her about what I need to get for the birth and what not. She has a kit that provides everything and all I would need to provide is regular house hold items that I already have. I also asked about breech birth, she personally can't do them but she has a partner that does them for her so even if I end up with a breech baby I will still get my home birth! Yay! Really the only thing that would keep me from not getting my home birth is if baby were to come before 36 weeks, and she even said that she would be willing, if it was our wish, to do a home birth after 35 weeks, though I do think I would go into the hospital if that were to happen. She also has a birth tub I can rent, liner included, for $50. So now to decide if we are just going to rent hers or if we will buy one of our own.
Oh and DH said he is ready to try for #3 in April! So as long as everything looks good it looks like we will be trying here in just a few months.