My husband has been going back and forth about doing a home birth. After meeting the midwife, my husband told me that if its really important to me, we can do it. See his concern is that we have insurance that will cover 100% of a doctor/hospital birth, but not a penny for midwife/home birth. And we don't have birth centers around here. But since its important to me and baby is due at tax time, he's on-board!!
The midwife was great! I really felt like we clicked, even DH liked her. She was totally open to being as hands-off as I wanted. Her fees were reasonable. It all seems to be coming together. I am so happy!