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    I know two people recently who I have personally warned about Cytotec inductions that went on to allow the OB to induce with Cytotec. One ended in a c/s and the other had to stop the administration of it b/c the baby was experiencing decels.

    I didn't even include my personal opinion of the drug, I only included facts in the warning. And while I am very, very glad they have had healthy babes, I can't help but wonder if everything could have been avoided if they didn't induce with Cytotec.

    WHY are the dangers of this drug not being disclosed?! It is insanity to me... and then even worse when people are given the information, but it's like they don't believe it. Normally I'm pretty good at keeping my mouth shut and supporting people in their decisions, but this one is very frustrating for me.

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    I hear ya, Ariel! I HATE HATE HATE that people don't care to educate themselves, and then when they DO hear things, they don't bother researching it. They just ask their OB (if they say anything at all), who may end up stretching the truth. Or they just go on pretending like everything is perfectly fine and their provider and the hospital know what they're doing and will do the best thing for them and their baby.

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    I know it's frustrating, but I think a lot of people really trust their doctors, and there is an assumption that doctor knows best since the doctor went to medical school and has a lot of training, and the patient didn't. People would rather trust the experience and professional opinion of their doctors than something from the Internet (even when in this case, Ariel, it's FDA info, if it's the same one you shared with our birth board, so it should be credible!).

    I remember feeling extremely overwhelmed at the end of my pregnancy when I found out DS was breech, even when people on my birth board were telling me about other options to get him to turn. My doctors said, let's do a version, and that's what I did.

    Anyway, my 2 cents. It's an overwhelming process and everyone wants what's best for their babies.

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    Erin, I know it is a stressful and exciting time. I got caught up in that with DD too. DH just barely made it home for mid-tour from Iraq, and we wanted to make sure we had the baby while he was here. Now it ended up that I got an infection in my uterus (chorioamnionitis) that required induction since I was getting very sick and so was DD, but had we not had the complications, we would have induced anyways at that time. Now, I have much more experience and education under my belt. I think the thing that frustrates me the most about the whole situation is that doctors are ethically bound to practice informed consent. I think there is a BIG hole in that "informed" consent when moms are not given the full information; especially the FDA part. All I got was a "we're going to insert this pill in your cervix, and it will ripen it so that we can start pitocin soon". I was absolutely mis-lead, and totally trusted the "professionals" as I am sure that many moms do. Afterall, my own mom has a PhD in pediatric nursing, so that is the world I was raised in.

    Like I said, I am normally REALLY good at just offering my support and trying to stay out of the decision-making, but Cytotec seriously scares me. I just had to get it out.
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    Yeah, I heard last night about a friend of a friend who planned an elective induction because all the birthdays in her family are on a day ending with 5 and she wanted to keep with the pattern. Something tells me that risks never factored into the convo with her OB. *sigh*
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    I know just what you mean. It is so frustrating to me that people just go on blind faith and put their doctors in a separate category than anyone else. DH & I were talking about it the other night (actually in relation to Cytotec after I showed him what you had posted in August) and I find it so hard to believe that someone wouldn't even ask some more questions of their doctor after being presented with that information.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jooniper View Post
    Yeah, I heard last night about a friend of a friend who planned an elective induction because all the birthdays in her family are on a day ending with 5 and she wanted to keep with the pattern. Something tells me that risks never factored into the convo with her OB. *sigh*


    I have a natural distrust of doctors. As a biology major, my undergrad classes were filled with "pre-meds" (ie students who thought they were going to get into Med School). They would openly admit that they were going into it for the prestige and the money. It really frightened me when a few of the students I'd known to get poor grades were actually accepted! Recently, I had a general practitioners ask me what I do for a living. I responded that I'm in a Genetics graduate program. He actually said, "wow, that sounds hard." Not reassuring!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by faeriecurls View Post
    I know just what you mean. It is so frustrating to me that people just go on blind faith and put their doctors in a separate category than anyone else. DH & I were talking about it the other night (actually in relation to Cytotec after I showed him what you had posted in August) and I find it so hard to believe that someone wouldn't even ask some more questions of their doctor after being presented with that information.
    Exactly! I just flat out, simply didn't KNOW of any risk associated with cytotec when I allowed it. Yes, I should have read more on induction methods... I do acknowlege my responsibility in that part of it. But I was very naive... I thought they used pitocin and that was it. I WISH someone had posted on my BB at the time, so that I would have asked more questions. I understand that when it's in the heat of the moment and you've never heard anything one way or another about a drug (NOW I would certainly ask), it isn't the most important thing at the time to get all of the info you can. For me now it's hard not to be suspicious of everything like Preggo in Tucson Erin said.
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    8 weeks ago when I was offered induction, with Cytotec, I read about the dangers and so I asked about it. I was given the very unsatisfactory answer of, "Well, that's just the standard way this hospital does inductions." So then I brought up the dangers I had read about and was told that the dosages in those situations was much higher than what I would be given. Still unsatisfied. I refused the induction altogether, but I would have refused Cytotec, if induction had become necessary. Is the draw that it is easy to administer vs IV pit?
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    I think part of it is ease of administration, I think part may be that it achieves cervical ripening and starting contractions with one drug...? not sure. It was not brought up as an option for my induction. I was already 2cm and fully effaced, though, so I didn't need cervical ripening.

    I'm currently trying to decide if I should comment on a college acquaintance talking on facebook about how she hopes her cervix makes progress by her next appointment so her doctor will agree to induce her...apparently she thinks her baby measuring big means that he is ready to be born, even though her EDD is not until the second week of August. It's her second baby.
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