Here is a link a friend posted on FB. It may help some with the grieving process.
Personally I can't stand when people write about how horrible things are for c/s moms. Yes, I get it some mothers do feel differently than I do. But if I say that I am completely fine with the decisionto have 2 c/s, people feel sorry for me. They either assume I am uninformed or uneducated about the dangers of a c/s. No I am not. For me it was the right decisions. Or people assume I am "too posh to push". Yes I have awesome insurance, but that didn't affect my decision. I don't think I should always have to justify having a c/s.
I mean I get it that not many people see things like I do, but I never hear from the people who are just ok with it it like me. I think there has to be someone out therelikeme I get it c/sisn'tabig bag of fun, but people don't need to paint it as dreary, miserable and the worst thing that will ever happen in your life.
Sorry I get upset about this, just like c/s moms on the other side of things. I just wanted to voice my opinion and let people know it is also ok to be ok with a c/s birth.