15 and pregnant.. Help please?

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15 and pregnant.. Help please?

Hello, my name is Ashleii. I am almost 15 and going into grade 10. I am with my byofriend, and have been for 9 months. I am figured to be around 26 weeks pregnant and I have not had an ultrasound. No one knows that I am pregnant except for a few close friends and my boyfriend. My parents or family members do not.
Right now my boyfriend and I are considering abortion. But this is something I don't know if I want to do or not. I know I am young, and still have a lot of life ahead of me, but I am just really stuck on what to do.
We went to the Pregnancy Crisis Center today and got to talk to someone, and she is going to make an appointment for us to go see a doctor about abortion.
I do want to talk to my boyfriend some more before making my decision set in stone.
It would really help if I could have someone to talk to, for advice, information, or even just as a friend to talk to.
Thanks for the help.
-Ashleii.

Joined: 01/06/03
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Hi Ashleii,

I already responded on one of your posts on another board but will paste here Smile

Hi Ashleii,

Have you been seen by a doctor? In Ontario, it is standard to have a routine u/s around 20 weeks so I am surprised your doctor has not sent you for one. Also, as the others have said, it is not legal to do an abortion at 26 weeks. If you have not sought out medical attention, I think it is imperative that you do so right away. I would also definitely encourage you to speak with your parents or another trusted adult asap.

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Go on the Anything Topic board where a lot of people answered your thread. I'm sorry you are in that situation....

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Ashleii updated her story on the November 2011 for those who followed her story.