Put it in the toilet and swish around. Dunk. If she has a good toilet, flushing it while keeping the diaper in the toilet helps a lot. I know some people have to go as far as using a cheap plastic spatchula to help scrape it off into the toilet. Gloves help if it's really messy. It doesn't happen often but every now and then I have to do this with Aiden's. You can do it! It'll be a grand poop adventure!
~Jackie, mommy to Aiden (11/2/10) and Zoe (VBAC 11/27/12)
I just use toilet paper to get as much off as possible and sometimes dunk. You could use liners too.
DD - Jessica, June, 2005 ~ DS - Kyle, September, 2007 ~ DD - Michaela, March 2010
Oh yeah. I should update about that huh? CDing on vacation went great. First, Teagan went on a cleanse so her BMs were back to NB consistency. The liners made for a terrible mess more than anything so I just swished. Then she turned into a chow hound so her BMs just rolled right off. We used those inserts that abacaxi suggested while driving to CA and while flying and they were AWESOME!