Sorry this is such a downer post, but I have been trying for almost 2.5 years *just* so Evie is not alone in this world and has a playmate and sibling. It's very frustrating.
My fertility clinic news is that I had to postpone my Nov appt to Dec b/c of work commitments which had to be done that day. So I've been tested already and told my FSH is 10...in other words, everything is fine, it's all age-related.
Sophia- I'm so sorry for what your going through. I can relate to the everyone around you (or at least it seems like everyone) getting pg. It's so hard not to dwell on the fact that it seems so easy for some. It defiantly is frustrating. *HUGS* That's great that your FSH is good. IUI is a lot more inexpensive that IVF so maybe it wouldn't hurt to try that first? I haven't done IUI yet but it will be the next step if our treatment cycle now doesn't work.
White Wolf- Hope your migraines are better- those are no fun!
Hi Dawn, Kara and Jean! Hope everyone is having a great weekend!
AFM- just anticipating this week. AF Is due on Wed. but hopefully she doesn't show. I can't test until the 19th as I was on a trigger shot and I have to let that leave my system. Hopefully this week goes by quickly!
DH Andrew, 31
TTC #1 since April 2010
3 IUIs = BFNs
9/12 IVF #1= BFN
12/12 IVF #2= BFN
Sophia, I am sorry you are so down. I have been there quite a bit myself lately.
Megeyre, the unexplained fertility issues must be so frustrating. I hope you hit on the right treatment sooner rather than later!
hey everyone - i, too, have unexplained infertility and thought i'd share my nov. cycle info.
i had a d&c on 10/20 and finally got a bfn today. opk said negative, too. i hope af comes this month, as i'd like to start ttc again.
it's been a rough journey.
Me - 33 AMH 1.22, DOR, Polyspermy
DH - 30 Low Testosterone
WOOF - Annabell, 7 & Eleanor, 8
TTC #1, 7/2009
2 M/C's 2010
1 M/C 2011, tri18
2 IUI's 2011 BFN
IVF - 4/2012
BFP - 10dpt
u/s 5/7 - HB128, one bean!
u/s 5/17 - HB150, 7 mm bleeding (eek!)
u/s 5/24 - HB162
u/s 5/31 - HB180, NT .8
u/s 6/7 - HB161, NT 1.15
us/ 6/12 - HB143
Sophia, I think with a FSH of 10 that's pretty good! You should ask your clinic what the success rates are doing IUI versus IVF and then go from there. What you want is a sure bet at this stage, trust me I know. My level is a 22 and the IVF success rate is only a 3% hence why we're onto donor eggs. I think IUI is 5% and the reason why it's a bit higher than IVF is that with IVF your eggs go through a lot more. Hope that makes sense...
I have no clue why on earth the 2nd or 3rd (etc) baby is so hard to conceive!! So not fair. Makes me bonkers when you hear the Duggers are having their 20th kid! How about save some kids for the rest of us... KWIM?
Kara, I know what you mean. After I had my 2nd, I had no idea both my tubes got messed up, then I got pregnant finally but miscarried. On top of that they told me I had per-cancercous cells in my cervix and then I had LEEP surgery after miscarrying (worse year ever). A year after that I had Lap surgery to see what could be done about my tubes, my right tube was beyond repair, so it was removed. This year I finally got pregnant again only to miscarry again and this time it was a T13 baby. In all of 4 years, I've lost so much time that my FHS level is now a 22 and age 44 is looming ahead. You'd think I would quit but boy am I stubborn!
Last edited by WhiteWolf68; 11-13-2011 at 10:10 PM.
Well, I decided to ask my doctor for clomid or femara for next cycle. We talked over the phone (he called me on a Saturday.....himself! Even though I am unhappy with what he has to say most of the time, he himself seems pretty devoted to his work and so considerate!). He said, "we can do whatever you want, within reason." He gave me his opinion, again, that IVF was the best way to go, and then asked me why was I hesitating so much. So we talked about it all for a bit. I'm sure he thinks I'm crazy for not just jumping right into IVF (some of you all might think that too) since we have insurance coverage. I did tell him that I think I'm just holding out hoping it will happen since I've been so close with an early m/c and chem preg this year and that it was hard for me to skip all the intermediate fertility treatments and go from natural to IVF.
The good news was that so far none of the tests for early preg loss turned up positive. They aren't all in yet, but so far so good.
He said we can take some time to talk it over, and I just need to call on the first day of my next cycle if we want to start anything. That should be end of next week. He was quite firm on his IVF recommendation, but at least he is open to other things while we get our heads straight. I think I might try just the drugs, then consider IVF for Feb/March.
On a side note, I am feeling so tired (again) from the progesterone supplements this month. It's such a drag. I just want to have a child, and put this all behind me! I'm sure I'm in good company there!
Hope everyone is having a nice weekend.