3 years coming up

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3 years coming up

What does it mean but more pain. And another year that my son doesn't have a daddy... and he's starting to understand what it means. And he knows to be sad. No cards that say Mommy and Daddy. Even if they are seperate cards. No Daddy at all.

And he tells me... he is sad that his Daddy is dead. And I tell him I am too. We both miss you, Richard. Why did you have to go?

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I am so very sorry. You post has me in tears right now. If I can do anything for you please just ask.
((hugs)) I am really sorry.

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I'm counting the days til it's officially 3 years. I can't believe it has come so quick again. Yet seems so long.

Ricky knows that his daddy is dead and that his heart stopped. He tells me that the weekend is time for being with his mommy and daddy, but his daddy is dead because his heart stopped.

Will it ever be not so sad?

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Officially... 3 years tomorrow. I'm numb.

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Joined: 09/15/02
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Maybe Ricky needs to talk to Jordan and JD (James Jr.). My DD Jordan tells me at least once a day that she is sad that her daddy died. She is 3 1/2 and was such a daddy's girl from the start. I don't know what to do other than tell her that I am sad too. Every night she leaves her bed and comes into bed with me at some point.

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I feel bvery deeply sorry for you and your child who lost his daddy. It is really very crucial time you are enduring. I pray to the God to bless you and your child. I think time will ease it and your happy days will come soon.