I need to let some greif out. As i posted before my FIL passed away Feb 19 and Isabelle was born Feb 25. This has been the hardest 8 months. the closer it gets to the holidays the harder it gets. To top things off my BIL had a baby on Oct 16. this makes two grand babies born within the year of his death. he did not even know that my BIL was having another. Will it get any better? What can I say to my dh to help him though the rest of this year and though the first part of next? Since our daughter will have her very first birthday around that some time as hispassing.