My FIL passed away on Feb 19, I was 37 wks and 3 days pregnant and my BIL wife was 6 weeks pregnant. It is not fair that he missed my DD by only 6 days. I was schuduled for induction for well over 2 weeks when this happened. He knew that his newist grandchild would be born, and he did not make it to see her. He wasnot sick it just happened. Its hard to believe that we will never get to see him again. My older children have a hard time understading that grandpa is gone. We didnot take tham to see him because they are to young and he wouldnot want them to remember him that way. Was I wrong for not taking them.
My dh and his mom have a real hard time dealing with the lost and its expected. Now from all the stress my MIL blood pressure has gone so high that its at stroke levels and she's only 44. My Dh is way to young to have to deal with this.