I have the straightest hair in the world. Always has been like that, so that's the type of hair I know how to style. Kate's hair is straight on top, then curls when it gets past her ears. I've always just brushed it like mine, not knowing any better. Lol Well it's getting long enough now that I need to start putting some product in it and scrunching it to encourage the curls and avoid the fluffy fly-aways. I don't want it to be wet-looking or crunchy. What do I use?