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So the girls who are all on Facebook have a know in on what's going on. I was freaking out about the whole thing at first but if I am in fact Pregnant I have this whole thing planned out that actually makes this work out for us in the end.

I'm currently on CD 34 and still no AF but many BFN tests. I thought I might have Oed early originally but when I was doing my OPK's I thought I got a positive OPK on CD 20, now I'm starting to think maybe it was a False Positive or I miss read it. Last time DF and I DTD was on our Anniversary which I was on CD 26, I have Oed as late as CD25 before but that was way back when I first got AF back from Nursing for 10+ months. After that they were getting back to normal and I was averaging 26 day's. So this is really late for me now. If I did O around CD25 That only makes me about 8-9 DPO. So that could explain all the BFN. I'm going to pick up some Answers Plus tests from work tomorrow since they are on sale and probably wait till Sunday to take it and see. If I still get a BFN and AF is still not here I'm going to call and find out about getting a blood test.

SO here's my Plan. Some of the girls know about the issue I've been having with my hrs at work and that I don't have any Health Insurance since from when I was pregnant with Harley and I lost it bc my average hours fell below 30 after my father died. When I lost my Insurance through work I was 7 months pregnant and then was relying on state medial after that which then after Harley was born I lost it bc our Family Makes to much yet I don't Qualify for it through work bc of my Average Hours but I couldn't get added on to DF's at work bc we missed the cut off. Any way all this effected me that I had no sick time and when I had Harley I was out on unpaid Leave bc I didn't qualify for it since my average hours were below 30 which killed us Financially in the end.

My whole plan now is to get my Average hours fixed before I would have the baby. I would be due in March if I am in fact Prego. Right now my average hours are 28hrs. If I can get work to give me only 4 more hrs so I had 32 that would give me a better cushion on getting them fixed. I work only 4 days a week, If they only give me 4 extra hours I can still keep my 3 days off, and I would only have to work an extra Hour each shift. By getting my hours fixed I would Qualify for Paid Maternity leave, I would be able to get my Health insurance back through work, and my Sick time (which this wouldn't make a difference bc they would use these when I went out on maternity leave). But also since I have been at my job 5 years now I get 3 weeks paid Vacation. After I take my next one in October, I'll have 5 left from this year that I can bank for next year where that will then give me 20 vacation day's next year. Also I'll get my Income Tax refund in February also so that would be a big help so Missing time this time wouldn't kill us financially.

I'm starting to feel a whole lot better about the situation bc I can finally get things fixed. Next issue to deal with is If it will be a boy or Girl. If it's another girl we will be set. She would stay in our room like Harley did till she was 1, then we would bunk her up in Harley's room after that. We would also be good on clothes still also bc Since it would still be Winter we still have size and season Appropriate clothes. If it's a boy we are going to have trouble bc then the Spare room we have that is currently occupied by the computer desk and the Cat's Litter boxes. We would need to rip out the carpet in there and then set it up for a boys room. My cousin who just had a little boy back in March said she would have some clothes for me if it were a boy so that helps. I'm really hoping it be a girl tho bc it would make things so much easier but we all know that's not how it works Lol

Anyway so there's my story for all to read. lol Now that things are working out in our favor I'm feeling better about the whole thing and I am really hoping I get to see those 2 pretty little pink lines Biggrin

Oh also I could blame my mother for this too, because a few months back she actually told me that her and my Grandmother both said that I was going to get pregnant this year, I told her no we've been really careful and are trying to prevent. Talk about a Jinx :rolleyes:

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Congrats!

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The Witch Showed up for me this morning. It was a shock too bc I had no symptoms either except the occasional cramp and some lower back pain which I never think anything of bc ever since I hurt my back at work I've had issues ever since. I'm actually pretty bummed out by the whole thing. Since I had this plan that was going to make it all work out I was actually hoping I was PG. But oh well. lol

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Oh sorry! I've had that same experience for the last few months. We stopped preventing in December and haven't had any luck. One time AF was 9 days late, but finally showed. I am hoping to get a BFP next week but I really doubt it. Every month it doesn't happen I figure I have a month to get healthier, but nothing ever happens. Well hopefully next month it will happen for us both!