I know many of us are planning to find out the gender of our babies (and some of us already have!). Are you also planning to tell everyone the gender or keep it a secret? I have been debating this in my mind. On one hand, I'm not sure if I will be able to keep the secret. One the other hand, I am worried that once everybody knows, they will buy us tons of gender-specific baby items. I don't mind gender-specific clothing, but I really want to keep the major items (like car seats, pack and plays, and high chairs) gender neutral so we can use them with our next child in the event that we have the opposite sex. For those of you who have BTDT, did people go hog wild buying you girl/boy things?
Also, did any of you see the spot on Good Morning America about gender reveal parties? What do you think? I can't imagine having a whole party just to reveal the gender, but the idea of having a pink or blue cake that is revealed when cut might be a fun way to reveal at a family dinner or something.