Thread: Lets talk more sex... lol!

Hey girls, so I'm sure you remember from my pregnancy that I was totally into DTD ALL OF THE TIME! I don't know what's happened? Maybe it's the fact that I haven't slept through the night since Trystan was born (8 weeks tomorrow, BTW!), or that I had to go back to working full time on top of that, or having four kids now, or having to spend every minute of my precious two days off per week cleaning my filthy house... but I so am not in the mood. DH keeps trying to mess around with me, and sex is the farthest thing from my mind after I'm up twice in the night feeding T, then getting back up at 6:30AM to get ready for work, working all day, getting kids from school, doing homework, playing with DD, and feeding T at least 6 times inbetween there! Once I finally get T down for the night I'm absolutely exhausted, and the last thing I want to do is (graphic TMI warning ahead) go down on him (he's been bugging me about that)!!!! OMG I'm like, are you freaking kidding me? If you really want to do me a favor, YOU can go down on ME, then after you're done with that I'll fall right to sleep and YOU can get up with Trystan all night long before you go to work!!! *deep breath* Anyways, is anyone else dealing with a DH/SO that won't leave you alone because they just don't get how unbelievably tired you are?!?!?!

Wow wasn't expecting this post from you Krystal.

Anyways, I was the same way with Nicholas...it is like nature's birth control. I have 2 weeks until I am 6 weeks pp and dread sex.... it hurt so bad after Nicholas.

We got DH a subscription to playboy after Nicholas was born.... Our sex life wasn't back to normal until 9 months pp after I stopped bfing.

I could never do the Playboy thing lol... I'm weird about porn... I basically forbid it lol!! I know what you mean about it being super painful, my first was just like that. I'm sure with me it's just a hormonal thing, too... I just hope I don't feel like this too much longer, or DH will probably think that I have a BF on the side!!

Ack! Wasn't expecting that post, either. Our sex life is back to normal. But, I don't work. That *would* be exhausting! I am up about 4-5 times a night between Vivian and our 3 year old...but somehow sex fits in there? Weird.

I'm going to be pregnant right away. I just know it.

Oh dear...not what I expected to read either!! Sorry to hear how busy and crazy things are for you right now

And for me, considering I still can't even walk without pain...uh no. Nothing here!

I so don't want sex at all. lol I'm buying dh playboy too I think and go to Sam's and stock up on tissues. lol sorry I'm punchy from lack of sleep

I'm just too exhausted. With DD I had such horrific tearing that it was forever before I was even brave enough to attempt sex and when we did it was horribly painful so it was a long time before we ventured down that avenue again. LOL I think I'd kill my husband if he was pressuring me for any type of sexual activity. I am only 4 weeks PP at this point and I don't see it happening any time soon. At least not until Ryan sleeps through the night or DH starts getting up with Ryan in the middle of the night to feed him.

I'm not either, Krystal. That's ridiculous. If no one is screaming, why would you do anything other than sleep? Besides, I can't ever imagine that ever ever ever never now that my front and back were once one gaping hole now separated by a few stitches.

Well we have DTD 2 times and I don't really feel like doing that either much. Once baby goes to sleep give me about 30 minutes before requesting sexual favors. One: to make sure we don't get interrupted and two: I cater to four other males all freaking day. I need a break. Three: I probably haven't eaten dinner yet nor have I showered. How could I possibly be desirable.

I'm into it, so this isn't that much of a problem for me. I just don't have the time or energy to do it as often as either of us would like. Life is overwhelming right now, so I'm totally with you there. And you had to go back to work so soon... I'm still on maternity leave! But being home alone with the two kids is totally exhausting. I can't get anything done and my poor DS watches way too much TV.