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QOTD: Sunday (warning, could be graphic!)

So I figured we would spice up our question today with some sex lol... What is your favorite sexual position while pregnant, and why?

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Missionary for me! DH knows how to work it just right where he's not putting any weight on my tummy, and my orgasms in this position are mind blowing!!!

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Pelvic rest...

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"triplespiral" wrote:

Pelvic rest...

That sucks... how are you taking that... and DH?!?!

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None...penetration is just too uncomfortable for me. We usually resort to other means of having fun Wink I just mentioned to DH today that I really hope my body goes back to normal after the baby is born so that I can enjoy sex again. Sad

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Awww Carrie I'm so sorry. At least you guys are still "taking care of each other" though! Am I the only nympho here?? Lol...

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"Starryblue702" wrote:

Awww Carrie I'm so sorry. At least you guys are still "taking care of each other" though! Am I the only nympho here?? Lol...

Yes.... Biggrin

We haven't done "it" for about 2 months I'm just not interested at all. I just take care of him when he asks me to.

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This whole pregnancy I've had no sex drive. I just give in when I have to....lol

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"mlle_carrie" wrote:

None...penetration is just too uncomfortable for me. We usually resort to other means of having fun Wink I just mentioned to DH today that I really hope my body goes back to normal after the baby is born so that I can enjoy sex again. Sad

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"Starryblue702" wrote:

Awww Carrie I'm so sorry. At least you guys are still "taking care of each other" though! Am I the only nympho here?? Lol...

Yep - LOL. Well - Lesley too, right? HA!

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"triplespiral" wrote:

Pelvic rest...

I'm jealous!!!! ... just of the pelvic rest part, not the stress of making sure your babies are safe part Wink

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"mlle_carrie" wrote:

None...penetration is just too uncomfortable for me. We usually resort to other means of having fun Wink I just mentioned to DH today that I really hope my body goes back to normal after the baby is born so that I can enjoy sex again. Sad

THis is very similar to us! Plus I'm so big and most positions besides missionary are painful and awkward. Plus I think it kind of freaks DH out some with the big belly, swollen lips down there and my pain... I think he is afraid to hurt me or the baby! So other means of participation these days. I do look forward to a regular sex life again after baby. Smile

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You are NOT the only Nympho....I am here to tell you that you are not alone!

I will take 'em all! Penetration or not. I've been really into oral w/ him lately & the funny thing is he used to not like it. Guess he just didn't know the right person, eh?

I really like to be on top, but for awhile I was a little clumsy w/ the belly, but just this w/end I got my groove back. Smile

Sorry if that was tmi.

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Last pregnancy it was from behind with a pillow for support.

This time I seem to be preferring missionary so far with a little leaning to the side.

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Just a thought for those who are having no sex: The longer you go without, the harder it is to get back to enjoying it. And it is good for your marriage at a time when you need to nurture your relationship.

I think it took about 9 months postpartum for me to enjoy sex again. There were different reasons: breastfeeding hormones, lactation getting in the way (he didn't mind, but it was a real turn off for me), pain from episiotomy, and then for me there was an emotional aspect, the longer we didn't have sex the more afraid I was to start up again - afraid that it would be painful and I think it was more painful because my body wasn't used to it. My husband was very understanding considering how horny he generally is.

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"PAmom2boys" wrote:

Yes.... Biggrin

We haven't done "it" for about 2 months I'm just not interested at all. I just take care of him when he asks me to.

Two months???!!! I haven't gone two months without sex since I was a virgin LMAO!!! That sucks that your drive is just gone... but at least you still take care of DH... but you make it sound so bad Amanda!! Hopefully your groove will come back after baby comes! :lovebed:

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This whole pregnancy I've had no sex drive. I just give in when I have to....lol

Holy Moses ladies, you really make it sound like a chore!! Just try to remember, as much as you guys don't want it, your DH wants it that much and probably more. A lot of men really get turned on by a pregnant woman (especially their own lol!) and the fact that you're carrying their baby!

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You are NOT the only Nympho....I am here to tell you that you are not alone!

I will take 'em all! Penetration or not. I've been really into oral w/ him lately & the funny thing is he used to not like it. Guess he just didn't know the right person, eh?

I really like to be on top, but for awhile I was a little clumsy w/ the belly, but just this w/end I got my groove back. Smile

Sorry if that was tmi.

Lol, I think we passed TMI a long time ago!! Thank God I'm not the only one, I was beginning to feel like a pervert LMAO! Your DH used to not like oral?!?! That blows my mind (no pun intended lol), as mine would pretty much die without it! Actually, his first wife never did it... not once in their five year marriage (it was a religious thing I believe), so when I got to him, I made his head spin (again, no pun intended... lol)!! Anyway, he loves it, I love it... we're both still hot for it!!

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its really a wonder that I've gotten pregnant not only once... but TWICE!!! ROFL

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There goes my birth buddy...starting the "sex talk" LOL!

If I may...

I'm loving what we call "The reverse sideways doggie helicopter" LOL! My hubby is recovering from a stroke (he had in 2008 ) and you would think that the sex quality would have gone down due to physical limitations...

Well let me tell you...DH has shown me a thing or two about limitations! When you have lemons, make lemonade, right? Sex is absolutely awsome...and pregnant sex is over the moon!

The helicopter thing is a sidways position...thank goodness we have a king size bed! Let's just say I go to sleep a happy happy woman! LOL! And I also love the reverse cowgirl, and all the oral I can stand... Whew! Okay... Time to go bother DH! LOL!

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LMAO Tamara!! It's definitely getting hot in here... but I think I'll go home now and bother DH for some crazy sex lol!! He definitely loves the reverse cowgirl because of the view, although I can't say that we've done that in a while... so tonight sounds good! And I totally agree that even though I love tons of sex not pregnant, when I am pregnant my orgasms are 50x more intense!! It's like heaven in my bed... the only thing that would make it better is if 1. DH was up for doing it again 20 minutes after the first round (he always falls right to sleep though!) and 2. if I had a piece of red velvet cake. I don't know why, sex and cake is just a vision of wonderfulness!!!

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"Starryblue702" wrote:

... the only thing that would make it better is if 1. DH was up for doing it again 20 minutes after the first round (he always falls right to sleep though!) and 2. if I had a piece of red velvet cake. I don't know why, sex and cake is just a vision of wonderfulness!!!

Make that german chocolate cake for me!! LOL! Gosh...this is such a naughty thread! :eek:

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I think part of my problem comes from a previous preterm labor history. I've had a few days where I nearly went to LD for contractions I couldnt stop and also the dan thigh pain makes spreading them a bit more painful. DH is kind of scared with the PT labor scares from previous pregnancies. By the time we get around to bedroom business I'm exhausted. I know it doesn't take long and half the time I do like to please him that way. So I don't mean to sound so put out. Lol

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We are enjoying the girl on top position with usually a change-up to missionary with lots of pillows under me to keep pressure off my belly.

We were going like rabbits the first tri before my belly got in the way.....now not so much. DH has his playboy subscription to get him through this "dry spell".