Ummmm, no lovin?

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DrakePlusOne's picture
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Ummmm, no lovin?

Am I the only one who doesn't have a labido? Between a new baby, three kids (now), and keeping up with day-to-day stuff, I do NOT feel like 'having fun'. Heh heh. My poor hubby. His valentine day sucked! Anyone else?

Joined: 04/30/09
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Aww. It's tough to get in the mood with all that life throws at you that's for sure. We've been fairly active, but DH hates condoms so that I think is a little bit of an incentive killer on his part LOL. I would try the mini pill again but last time I had supply issues with it so I haven't wanted to.

The thing is I'm amazed at how much my body seems to be taking more time to bounce back this time. Like everything is fine during but after I'll feel crazy sore. Guess I just have to do more pelvic floor exercises.

AkMomma07's picture
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I'm so not in the mood. Partly because I hate the way my body looks and partly because I'm exhausted from everything I have to do all day long. Bleh.

eislem's picture
Joined: 08/29/05
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We are running so hot and cold. We are fairly regular but have been neglecting each other lately as everyone is sick and I am feeling run down. I don't produce secretions down there (TMI) while breast feeding so we've resorted to lube and it's definitely better but still somewhat uncomfortable for me so I am more willing to catch up on my sleep. Wink

DrakePlusOne's picture
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Melissa, totally give me that sleep too! Wink

Kier's picture
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:lurk:

I have no libido and probably wont till Kellen starts on baby food, or starts fully sleeping through the night. Also, I have been feeling rather down on myself lately, which doesnt help things either. Not to mention the fact that DH told me from the day that Kellen was born that we were not doing the deed till his sperm count was 0. I am holding him to it ;p

DrakePlusOne's picture
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Kier, how can you not look in the mirror and scream 'I am the bomb!!' Four kids and you are 116lbs?!? (Ticker) That is amazing! Don't be hard on yourself. Smile Did your hubby get the *snip snip*? That's what we are thinking about in our household too.

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Because at 4ft 9 inches, 116 is the very tippy top oh my healthy range, and I really need to work on toning. Which will come, just gotta be able to get active. between caring for 4 kids, nursing, and being miserably sick lately, it just hasnt been easy.

DH is scheduled for the snip in april. I'm having some mixed emotions, but I do know that in the end its what is best for our family